How often do you say “no” to things that would interfere with your goals?
In the past, I’ve often said no. Now it seems more. My most important goal is to live holy. that means I have to say no to secular music, TV and film. It means I say no to products that I’ve liked in the past.
And he said to all, “If anyone would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross daily and follow me.
Luke 9:23
So denying yourself seems negative, but it isn’t. Most of us are bent towards making the wrong decision. By following after Jesus, and listening to his voice, it’s actually better for me. The things that are left in my life are good for me.
Just like you tell a child no often when they’re young because they want to do things that will harm themselves. “No don’t touch that hot stove. No don’t run out into the street. “
We are like children. It takes us scores to figure things out. If we knew in our younger years, what we’ve learned in our senior years, things would go a lot better for us. That’s why we need God. He’s been around forever so he knows the right answers for our lives.